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mardi 6 août 2013

Why Is Female Masturbation Looked Down On In The United States

By Jordan Masten


Females who are in need of sexual gratification often turn to masturbation to achieve their sexual and psychological objectives. Many married and single women often masturbate and explore their erogenous zones so as to have orgasm whenever they need it. A lot of women even masturbate and achieve multiple orgasm during one erotic masturbation session.
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In the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries Western Europe went through a time known as the Reformation. This was when parts of the Catholic church fragmented into many different parts as people realized that the Roman church was very corrupt and heretical. Out of these many sects a few became quite radical in their interpretation of human sexuality and called themselves Puritans. Their view was that sex was strictly between and married man and woman and only to be performed for the sake of birthing a child.

Well the sexy people of western Europe thought this was a stupid thing and invited the Puritans to move to the New World usually at the end of a sword or gun. So a lot of the original settling of what is now the United States was done by these Puritans. Many of them were in the founding government of the country and helped to create its laws and form our modern day values and beliefs. One of the most powerful beliefs is that sex is only for men and women who are married and for the purpose of birthing children.

The special part of a woman's body that she really needs to learn how to pleasure is the clitoris. A woman's clitoris is similar to a guy's penis and in some ways it actually does look like a tiny little penis. It has a hood and the button to "push" is the tiny little sensitive area under that hood. When you gentle rub it, first slow, then gradually faster and with more pressure, it starts to swell just like a man's penis does and the hood will come up over it. By that point, you should really be starting to pant and sweat and feel good if you have done it the right way.

In the 1960's women began to see that sexual repression was one of the biggest things that prevented them from being equals with men. By flaunting their sexual prowess with female masturbation women are able to overcome the diminished role that society put them in as simply being baby making machines. Since then women have risen to the highest parts of business and government. So feel free to let loose and masturbate in order to liberate.

The male experience is shorter but more intense. The female experience is longer but lower overall. My experience of female masturbation is that the initial phase can be horizontal - nothing happens. I lie there waiting for the inspiration of an effective fantasy.But once that spark takes light, my experience is similar to a man's. Within a minute or two the whole thing is over. The build up is quick and the sensations of release are sexually satisfying. The aftermath of orgasm involves a sense of relief followed by blissful relaxation.

Build up with a partner takes much longer than a few seconds. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as he stimulates me. My mind has no conscious focus except the sensations of my partner touching me and thinking about his erection.For me, orgasm with a partner includes pelvic contractions but there is not the same sense of release. Using fantasy allows me to be the woman but also to identify with the man at the point of orgasm as he thrusts and ejaculates to orgasm. Perhaps this ability to superimpose the act of male ejaculation on my orgasm produces my sense of release.

When you reach your genitals, try out different kinds of touches and strokes. You can try tickling, stroking, kneading or pinching your vagina very lightly. Don't confine yourself to your fingers only. Use your hands and even your knuckles to stimulate the area.You will get the most amazing orgasm if you learn to hold it back for some time. Try slowing down the level of stimulation when you feel that you are about to have the orgasm. Do not stop it altogether; just stimulate another area for some time. This will not only increase the pleasure from the act, it will help you get multiple orgasms also.Remember to breathe regularly when you are getting the climax. The natural inclination is to hold your breath. However, breathing deeply and regularly will help you get a more intense orgasm.

Female masturbation is very important for sexual health, so indulge yourself whenever you feel the need!I've never read a book that practically breaks down the complexities of the female orgasm into an easy to read formula, like this one.I actually got my boyfriend to try out some of the techniques in this book and I ended up having wobbly legs the whole day! I didn't understand why they set a time limit for this book when everybody who read it, is raving about it.




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