Are you someone who gets nervous easily when you see a beautiful woman and have no idea how to go about approaching that girl you like? This is a very common reaction that most men have, and it is certainly possible to get over this nervousness if you know exactly how to approach. Most men do not have the nerves the approach the girl they like and even if they do, have no idea how to proceed after even after starting up a conversation with the girl. In this article, I will share you some key tips that will make sure you make a successful approach every time.
1. Find a Way to Exit Quickly after Approaching
It is not wise to have long conversations with a girl on the first approach. Most men are prone to making this mistake in the dating world. On the first time approach, a girl will always excuse herself claiming that she needs to be somewhere else. This is natural for most women. This means that you should be able to find a reason to keep the first time approach short and quick. This will prevent you from making some obvious mistakes that could ruin your chance with her.
Do not be too detailed on the first time approach
The only thing you should really be worried about during that first minutes is to get your contact information, usually her email address or phone number. The conversation should be short as it is only meant for introductions. Once that is done, you should not stick around any longer. This whole process should not take more than 2 to 5 minutes, and with that contact information you just got, contact them at a later time when you have time. This is important because you need to show her that you have your own life to live and you do not need her approval.
3a. Mistake #1 of Approaching: Avoid openly making your intentions known
Avoid hinting at her romantically or sexually on that first approach. Most men think that they should let the woman know right on that first approach, but this is usually bad timing. Examples of such mistakes are asking her for a date right away, asking her if she is attached or just trying to convince her that they are the right guy for her. Approaching her in a friendly manner is the best way to deal with the situation. In addition to that, you should not ask her for a date on the first meeting. This might scare her away and hence not recommended.
3b. Mistake #2 of Approaching: Not Dressing Right
Another thing to keep in mind is that it is absolutely essential that your dress sense is in tip-top condition when you approach the girl you like. Of course, there is no need to look completely dressed up whenever you approach, but just make sure you are not looking too messy. Wearing fitting clothes is important, and avoid wearing too flashy items. You should be neat and well groomed for the approach, and then go out there and practice until you succeed. Once you have these tips down, have a little visualization exercise of how your whole approach will work, and then go out there and execute it!
1. Find a Way to Exit Quickly after Approaching
It is not wise to have long conversations with a girl on the first approach. Most men are prone to making this mistake in the dating world. On the first time approach, a girl will always excuse herself claiming that she needs to be somewhere else. This is natural for most women. This means that you should be able to find a reason to keep the first time approach short and quick. This will prevent you from making some obvious mistakes that could ruin your chance with her.
Do not be too detailed on the first time approach
The only thing you should really be worried about during that first minutes is to get your contact information, usually her email address or phone number. The conversation should be short as it is only meant for introductions. Once that is done, you should not stick around any longer. This whole process should not take more than 2 to 5 minutes, and with that contact information you just got, contact them at a later time when you have time. This is important because you need to show her that you have your own life to live and you do not need her approval.
3a. Mistake #1 of Approaching: Avoid openly making your intentions known
Avoid hinting at her romantically or sexually on that first approach. Most men think that they should let the woman know right on that first approach, but this is usually bad timing. Examples of such mistakes are asking her for a date right away, asking her if she is attached or just trying to convince her that they are the right guy for her. Approaching her in a friendly manner is the best way to deal with the situation. In addition to that, you should not ask her for a date on the first meeting. This might scare her away and hence not recommended.
3b. Mistake #2 of Approaching: Not Dressing Right
Another thing to keep in mind is that it is absolutely essential that your dress sense is in tip-top condition when you approach the girl you like. Of course, there is no need to look completely dressed up whenever you approach, but just make sure you are not looking too messy. Wearing fitting clothes is important, and avoid wearing too flashy items. You should be neat and well groomed for the approach, and then go out there and practice until you succeed. Once you have these tips down, have a little visualization exercise of how your whole approach will work, and then go out there and execute it!
About the Author:
Do you want to learn the best tips on how to approach a girl you like? Leonard Calvin is a dating expert who specializes in helping men learn good flirting tips. You can visit his website at How to Attract a Girl Tips and get a 30 Seconds Seduction Secrets mini-course for FREE!
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