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samedi 3 mai 2014

Peeking At The Divorce Diaries

By Tracie Knight


In the modern society, divorce has become the norm of the day leaving many families in confusion. Different methods have been considered by different persons in trying to cope with this distressing vice. Listed below are some peeks from divorce diaries.

A glitter of hope.As New Year approaches, I give a ray of hope. Hope is just a near distance away and I am sure of that since I am nearly there. Time taken maybe a while or even years but I am certain as I am not a stranger to this.

The wall writings. My marriage ended this way. First there were a series of whines that I never recognized what they were for, and then a bang followed. In review, I can see it clearly though back then my vision failed to recognize the wall writings.

You will never amount to anything you worthless piece of crap. These were my ex word as our marriage was still unraveling. I would like to thank him officially for those hurtful, heart piercing words for little did he know that he adding favor onto me. Through his own words he was encouraging me to climb the ladder and be something great without him of course. It now turns out that it was all I was waiting for.

Divorce a business opportunity. The society is never anticipating for a crashing matrimony. Feelings that someone should be trying to make profits from divorce the same way as in marriage should be hitting you. The fact that half of marriages that are taking place for the first time and also three quarters of ensuing marriages finish through a divorce is sensible enough to be put into contemplation. It will only take some less gut for a firm to turn marriage annulment into a fortune very easily thanks to it being so common.

Strangers can give help cheaply.People that I never knew in my disorder of ending marriage would mostly question me on; how did you do it? How did you get it over you? People that know me mostly do not ask as they know about almost everything. Answering the questions from strangers, I narrate it, again I narrate it, over and over again. As I continue speaking about it again and again, I realize that am coming over it. A regular chat and sharing with anyone anywhere works for sure.

Refrain from sharing with kids as a single parent. Ever since I turned a single mom, realizing when not to talk is a thing that I have learnt. Working hard to manage your household is among the several things that tag along an ending marriage and they must not be a nuisance. This occupation is supposed to be mine and I should not be whining to my children as to why I am doing all the work alone.

List of grateful at things. I ought to be appreciative to something. Through my journey towards contentment, I have come to a realization that finding your sense of happiness is in the way very essential. Counting my blessings together with looking on the bright side of life is the way to take.

In conclusion it is very helpful in getting into a heart to heart conversation with other divorced persons as you share same experience. This will help you come with several ways of moving on with life despite the harsh reality of an ending marriage.




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