Is there a guy that you're interested in but you're not sure if he is attracted to you? You're just not sure. He seems to like you but how do you know for sure? Is he just being pleasant or do you have a chance with that guy of your dreams? How do you know if a guy likes you and what are some of the signs that he wants to date you?
While many men can play their cards close to the vest, there are ways that you can tell if he likes you. You see, men are brought up to hide their emotions and it's often thought that men shouldn't show their feelings. Even if the man you're interested in isn't willing to speak his mind or tell you how he feels, his emotions will be apparent in his body language. No matter how much he might try to hide his true feelings, his body will tell the truth no matter how hard he might try to deny his feelings for you.
If you notice that he touches you from time to time then there's a good chance that he is interested in you. Touching you on the small of your back or touching you on the arm when he's talking to you are both good signs that he is attracted to you. It's almost like an internal desire manifesting itself outwardly that he needs to connect with you or that he wants your relationship to move forward when he touches you.
There are people and cultures where touching is encouraged or a part of their culture. In many countries, it's common for people to touch more often with others they feel comfortable or close to. It could be that he touches many people when he talks to them. Try to take notice and see if it's just you that he touches when he's talking or if he does this with everyone. No matter what you discover, if he is touching you then there is a connection and a warm place in his heart for you that can lead to bigger and better things.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Shy men and guys that have had their heart broken in the past might not pass this attraction test though. Of course, if you're standing at a bar it's also much more difficult to face someone directly without appearing awkward. Inversely, it's difficult to face away from someone if you're sitting across from them at a small table in a restaurant eating dinner. Try to check out his feet the next time you are talking to him in a normal sort of situation. Also, take notice of where he points his chest when he's talking to you. This body language will often tell you all you need to know about what lies within his heart.
A man's eyes are the next place you will want to look to see if he is interested in you. When a man is falling in love, his eyes will sparkle when he smiles at the object of his desire. Do his eyes sparkle when you smile at him? Does he have a genuine smile that can be seen in his eyes? It's impossible for a man to control this sign of attraction so take notice of his eyes the next time you meet and see if his eyes sparkle when he sees you.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If you notice any of these signs then there is a very good chance that the man that you're interested in does have feelings for you. Take notice and do your best not to scare him off. Many men are poor at understanding and communicating their emotions. Allow his body language to tell you everything that you need to know and move forward without a word. Many of the best men are shy and awkward so if you are interested in him, let his body do all the talking for now. There will be plenty of time in the future for him to tell you how he truly feels once his emotions overcome his instincts not to show his feelings.
While many men can play their cards close to the vest, there are ways that you can tell if he likes you. You see, men are brought up to hide their emotions and it's often thought that men shouldn't show their feelings. Even if the man you're interested in isn't willing to speak his mind or tell you how he feels, his emotions will be apparent in his body language. No matter how much he might try to hide his true feelings, his body will tell the truth no matter how hard he might try to deny his feelings for you.
If you notice that he touches you from time to time then there's a good chance that he is interested in you. Touching you on the small of your back or touching you on the arm when he's talking to you are both good signs that he is attracted to you. It's almost like an internal desire manifesting itself outwardly that he needs to connect with you or that he wants your relationship to move forward when he touches you.
There are people and cultures where touching is encouraged or a part of their culture. In many countries, it's common for people to touch more often with others they feel comfortable or close to. It could be that he touches many people when he talks to them. Try to take notice and see if it's just you that he touches when he's talking or if he does this with everyone. No matter what you discover, if he is touching you then there is a connection and a warm place in his heart for you that can lead to bigger and better things.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Shy men and guys that have had their heart broken in the past might not pass this attraction test though. Of course, if you're standing at a bar it's also much more difficult to face someone directly without appearing awkward. Inversely, it's difficult to face away from someone if you're sitting across from them at a small table in a restaurant eating dinner. Try to check out his feet the next time you are talking to him in a normal sort of situation. Also, take notice of where he points his chest when he's talking to you. This body language will often tell you all you need to know about what lies within his heart.
A man's eyes are the next place you will want to look to see if he is interested in you. When a man is falling in love, his eyes will sparkle when he smiles at the object of his desire. Do his eyes sparkle when you smile at him? Does he have a genuine smile that can be seen in his eyes? It's impossible for a man to control this sign of attraction so take notice of his eyes the next time you meet and see if his eyes sparkle when he sees you.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If you notice any of these signs then there is a very good chance that the man that you're interested in does have feelings for you. Take notice and do your best not to scare him off. Many men are poor at understanding and communicating their emotions. Allow his body language to tell you everything that you need to know and move forward without a word. Many of the best men are shy and awkward so if you are interested in him, let his body do all the talking for now. There will be plenty of time in the future for him to tell you how he truly feels once his emotions overcome his instincts not to show his feelings.
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