Permit me to set the scene. You've been driving, flying, or riding the train or bus for hours to see your companion. You both decide to go to the cinema. You've chosen a good movie to watch. You've got the snacks. The lights begin to dim and you spend the next hour or so in silence. Does anyone else see what's wrong with this?
You might just be lucky to get a full weekend together, or maybe just a couple of hours, however long you are planning to spend with one another, choosing a date where you are both silent for the entire time is NOT a very good idea.
Instead try to go for some ideas that will get you chatting, touching and bonding. I'm sure that you can come up with some better ideas if you really put your mind to it. But incase you are struggling, we have laid out our favourites below.
Star Gazing
Drive away from the bright lights in your town. Lay a blanket on the ground and bring some warm cocoa. If you're computer smart, download an iphone application called "Star Walk" which lets you monitor over 2 hundred thousand celestial bodies and has lots of information about stars and constellations. By doing things like these, it will give you a great opportunity to speak about your future together and really grow your trust in the relationship.
Ice Skating
A date at the ice rink can be one of the most fun of all. As you glide around you will find your self grabbing your lovers hands. You might fall over a little if it's the first time you've been skating. But you shouldn't worry, even the pros fall over on the ice now and again. Guys, please remember to give your girl a hand when she is getting up. And Gals, please remember not to laugh too hard when you watch your man fall. This date can get extremely physical and pretty soon you'll be pretending to trip over just so that you can grab onto your partner.
Hiking
Another great idea is to pack a lunch box, and a map, and spend the day with each other in the beautiful great outdoors. Be sure you take a camera for those picture perfect moments, and remember to take a makeshift first aid kit and plenty of drinking water. With this activity you will develop your abilities to make decisions together.
Sea Life Aquarium
If you have an aquarium in your town or city, this can be a fantastic place to go to. It should usually be pretty quiet during the morning hours and you will get to see some really cool animals. You can sit all day and talk with each other, learning about the fish, and also learning more about yourselves.
Dinner Date
It doesn't have to be anything fancy, although it can if you desire. I'm sure your partner would love it if you prepared a meal for them. No matter where you decide to have your dinner date, nothing is better than eating with candle lights and flowers on the table. And gents, let me give you some advice. A woman will love it if you make a fancy meal for her. Pasta is my favorite. Just remember spaghetti isn't just for two Disney dogs to enjoy.
You might just be lucky to get a full weekend together, or maybe just a couple of hours, however long you are planning to spend with one another, choosing a date where you are both silent for the entire time is NOT a very good idea.
Instead try to go for some ideas that will get you chatting, touching and bonding. I'm sure that you can come up with some better ideas if you really put your mind to it. But incase you are struggling, we have laid out our favourites below.
Star Gazing
Drive away from the bright lights in your town. Lay a blanket on the ground and bring some warm cocoa. If you're computer smart, download an iphone application called "Star Walk" which lets you monitor over 2 hundred thousand celestial bodies and has lots of information about stars and constellations. By doing things like these, it will give you a great opportunity to speak about your future together and really grow your trust in the relationship.
Ice Skating
A date at the ice rink can be one of the most fun of all. As you glide around you will find your self grabbing your lovers hands. You might fall over a little if it's the first time you've been skating. But you shouldn't worry, even the pros fall over on the ice now and again. Guys, please remember to give your girl a hand when she is getting up. And Gals, please remember not to laugh too hard when you watch your man fall. This date can get extremely physical and pretty soon you'll be pretending to trip over just so that you can grab onto your partner.
Hiking
Another great idea is to pack a lunch box, and a map, and spend the day with each other in the beautiful great outdoors. Be sure you take a camera for those picture perfect moments, and remember to take a makeshift first aid kit and plenty of drinking water. With this activity you will develop your abilities to make decisions together.
Sea Life Aquarium
If you have an aquarium in your town or city, this can be a fantastic place to go to. It should usually be pretty quiet during the morning hours and you will get to see some really cool animals. You can sit all day and talk with each other, learning about the fish, and also learning more about yourselves.
Dinner Date
It doesn't have to be anything fancy, although it can if you desire. I'm sure your partner would love it if you prepared a meal for them. No matter where you decide to have your dinner date, nothing is better than eating with candle lights and flowers on the table. And gents, let me give you some advice. A woman will love it if you make a fancy meal for her. Pasta is my favorite. Just remember spaghetti isn't just for two Disney dogs to enjoy.
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